How to Be Idle and Blessed

I remember the first time I heard the line from Mary Oliver's poem, "The Summer Day." After contemplating the world of a grasshopper on a summer day, Oliver asks her reader if they know how to really pay attention, how to be still and quiet. The poem ends with an oft-quoted question: Tell me, what … Continue reading How to Be Idle and Blessed

When The Original Plan is the Best Plan

We spent the month of June doing some house renovations. As the girls grow and play differently, our playroom also changed. Housed in the formal dining room, the playroom sat at the center of our home for over three years. I could read on the couch and watch the girls play or make dinner and … Continue reading When The Original Plan is the Best Plan

Appreciating Spring Snow

One of my favorite things about springtime in Colorado is that the weather changes quickly. The other day, it snowed in the morning and by the time we picked Bea up from track practice in the afternoon, we were wearing t-shirts and enjoying the sunshine and dry ground. We're up in the mountains, decompressing from … Continue reading Appreciating Spring Snow

Planning for Spontaneity

I like to think of myself as a fun! and spontaneous! person, ready for adventure or new plans at a moment's notice. That hope is pretty much opposite of my personality. I'm a planner and organizer and when things don't go the way I'd hope, I feel at the very least low-level stress. We took … Continue reading Planning for Spontaneity

Playing the Should Game

Mom!! I want to be the boss! I wish you weren't the boss! It feels like I hear this exclamation at least once a day, but I'm sure it's less frequent. Our strong, independent daughter is figuring out ways to be autonomous and doesn't like hearing redirection. I wish it were that easy - I am … Continue reading Playing the Should Game

Learning the Language of Life

Anyone who knows Bea knows that she is an incredibly verbal kid. She's articulate and inquisitive and has an impressive vocabulary. But, she's also 4 and so is still figuring out language. She'll use words that are mostly correct, though a different word would probably have been a better fit. Her grammar is almost perfect, except … Continue reading Learning the Language of Life

Recalibrating Expectations

One of Bea's favorite books is Good Night, Philadelphia. It's part of that series of board books that focuses on a city and greets the famous landmarks: Good morning, Museum of Art. Good afternoon, Betsy Ross House and Old Glory. Hello, Reading Terminal Market and cheesesteaks. For a solid year, we read it multiple times per day. Even … Continue reading Recalibrating Expectations

Finding Hope in the Messiness

Advent either started yesterday or last Sunday, depending on how you observe the season. Regardless, we've gotten off to a semi-rocky start. We've had a dinner-long meltdown during our candlelit meal because I wouldn't turn off all the lights; I forgot to print out the Jesse Tree ornaments that go along with Unwrapping the Greatest Gift; … Continue reading Finding Hope in the Messiness