Allowing What Is Already In You To Swell Up

The other day my Facebook memories reminded me that it had been a year since I took the girls to the Martin Luther King, Jr. Day Parade. The photo is of us bundled up, huddled together in the freezing cold. Elle is leaning over a cup of hot cocoa, too cold to hold it herself. … Continue reading Allowing What Is Already In You To Swell Up

From Homemaker to Social Activist

Recently I found out that Frank had been putting my career as homemaker on our tax forms for the past six years. When I found out, I did not love that title. In his defense, apparently, this is an accepted phrase that won't get your return flagged by the IRS. I pushed back against this antiquated term … Continue reading From Homemaker to Social Activist

Ruby Woo Pilgrimage: Will You Help?

Last year, I remember seeing a trending hashtag on Twitter about a lipstick that empowered women. Stories were told about wearing this bright red color to help boost confidence. The shade was just right for a variety of skin tones and I loved seeing women share the impact of this cosmetic. As the thread grew, … Continue reading Ruby Woo Pilgrimage: Will You Help?

I’m a Small Part of A Big Story

I've been in a bit of a blogging slump lately. Part of it is that my mental capacity is going toward this last push to the tax deadline. (Which is over tomorrow!!) Part of it is that I'm working on a Top Secret offline writing project that is taking up time and energy. (I'm nowhere near talking … Continue reading I’m a Small Part of A Big Story

A Gradual Journey of Activism

I'm honored to be over at SheLoves Magazine today, thinking about activism and what a long journey it is toward doing it well. I'm learning to look ahead at those who are doing it well and remembering to look back and help others along their path. Here's an excerpt and I hope you'll head over … Continue reading A Gradual Journey of Activism

Learning Leads to Action

I've been thinking a lot about activism and how I want to model being active in our community, in politics, and in our world to the girls. At first, I was intimidated by SheLoves' theme, "I keep showing up" because so often, I don't show up. It's easier to hide behind ideas than it is to … Continue reading Learning Leads to Action

Reading One Star Reviews as an Act of Peacemaking

I've read so many articles in the past few years on the need to step out of our comfort zones, to see and hear experiences from "the other." That our nation and world wouldn't be so divided if we just know people from different backgrounds. That our churches would come together if we were able … Continue reading Reading One Star Reviews as an Act of Peacemaking

Kindness Takes Courage

The way to Elle's heart is sharing. When Bea gave her a cinnamon cracker, leftover from her school snack, Elle beamed the entire walk home, showing me the cracker and exclaiming, Bea shared with ME! I don't know when I started changing my language, but when the girls do things for each other, I use the … Continue reading Kindness Takes Courage

Actively Loving My Neighbors

We sat around two tables, ten women, a teacher, and me. Five women wore a hijab or some sort of covering. Four women were from Mexico. Two women relied on their friends for translation. We sat in a mobile classroom with a broken air conditioner, though during the morning class the heat wasn't all that … Continue reading Actively Loving My Neighbors

The Work of Peace

Mom, what do you want for Christmas? Bea asked the other day. Oh, Time...... I responded wistfully, thinking of how lovely a quiet, peaceful afternoon with nothing to do would feel. No, I think you want matching Christmas jammies with me. This week we lit the Peace candle on our Advent wreath. It's a time to remember … Continue reading The Work of Peace