Notes from the Middle

I celebrated my birthday this last weekend. It wasn't a big one or a milestone––just a normal, next year sort of birthday. I've been in the process of recovering from a terrible cold since Christmas. It goes in waves and I've maxed out on all the drugs so was reduced to napping on the couch, … Continue reading Notes from the Middle

Living On the Edge

This summer I did something completely outside my comfort zone. I composed an unsent letter and read it to an audience of strangers. I was one of about 15 or so people who read letters that ranged in mood and theme. One woman responded to a misogynistic text sent after a first date; an Uber … Continue reading Living On the Edge

Poised on the Horizon

My alarm has started going off at 5:45 after ten blissful weeks of waking up "naturally" at 6:30. (Can a mom of early risers wake up without assistance?) Bea has been back in school for a week and Elle starts preschool next week. We are easing back into schedules and routines after a busy July. … Continue reading Poised on the Horizon

What I’m Learning From Mosses

It's the first week of summer and we're easing into life without routines here. Or, I suppose I should say "modified routines" because there's always a need for some sort of rhythm to our days. This year, I'm learning from the mosses as I try to embrace slow growth, longterm goals, and letting myself be … Continue reading What I’m Learning From Mosses

Finding Truth Close to Home

Last week I had an unexpected afternoon to myself. I ate a solitary lunch and was looking at my to-do list. It was filled with everything from cleaning and household tasks to writing and more creative endeavors. But all of those things made me feel antsy and I knew that I wouldn't be productive. I … Continue reading Finding Truth Close to Home

Remembering Who Came First

I'm honored to be over at SheLoves today. This month's theme is "territories" and I originally didn't expect to have anything to say on this topic. But a trip to the wild landscape of northern Colorado reminded me that this space I call home, where I feel grounded, isn't really mine to claim. Here's an … Continue reading Remembering Who Came First

Spending Quality Time With Art

My top Love Language is Quality Time. During tax season, this means we are very protective of our weekends. We try to make sure to eat at least one meal as just the four of us and we keep Frank's one day off as relaxed as possible. Of course, things happen and we engage with … Continue reading Spending Quality Time With Art

Finding Balance is a Gift

The windows are open, at least for a couple hours on this warm January afternoon. The backyard fountain is running, reminding me of summertime when it flows nonstop. Our new deck is finished and, with the sliding door open, I'm thinking about the next season and using this space that has been too unsound for us … Continue reading Finding Balance is a Gift

Yes, I Am Able

I've never dyed my hair before and, as my 35th birthday approached, I felt the itch to spice things up a bit. I'm embracing my identity more and more and I felt the need to commemorate that with something totally outside of my normal look. Something fun and funky but still maturely thirty. So, we went … Continue reading Yes, I Am Able