What did you say?

Let’s make a wise choice, Bea.
What did you say? Why?

Hey Bea, it’s time to head out.
What did you say? Why?

Studying for her next round of questions
Studying for her next round of questions

I could keep going, but that’s what our conversations are looking like these days. You would think after living together for three years plus nine months in-utero, Bea would trust me a bit more. I don’t think I’m exaggerating when I say things rarely happen the first time I ask, even when doing something quickly would benefit Bea. (Hey Bea, want a cookie? -What did you say? Why?)

I know that 99% of this is the age and phase. Part of it is Bea figuring out her own opinions and ideas. Part of it is busyness – I think she truly doesn’t hear me sometimes. And part of it is just the eternal why stage. It’s like her response is automated, without any thought behind it.

As frustrating as it can be to constantly (constantly!!) hear What did you say? Why? I wonder if that’s how my relationship with God can be. When an opportunity comes along or a gift is given, rather than being thankful and recognizing a blessing, I ask, What did you say? Why?

Maybe I need to remember to trust a little more, to live life a little more faithfully, and to assess my own questioning nature.

Do you respond to situations quickly or do you stop to ask questions?

Linked with Kate Motaung’s Five Minute Friday, a time to write without editing.

When You Wear a Story, You Change the Story

On Monday, I shared my Earring of the Month Club experience. Today, I wanted to share a bit more of the story. Fair Trade Friday started by sending out boxes featuring 3-4 pieces of jewelry or accessories. They’ve since grown to include home goods and a kids box, as well. The Mercy Shop also carries items a la carte. I’ve been eyeing the tote bags and paper bowls. I’m thinking this option will be great for the holidays!

FTF Goodies
FTF Goodies

Shortly after receiving my earrings, I decided to take the plunge and try their one-time gift box. Within days, my box was shipped and I received a variety of beautifully wrapped goodies, including a clutch from India, soap and chapstick from Zambia, and a bracelet from Uganda.

I loved that each item in my box came with a tag telling me about the country it was made, the organization who made it, and even the specific woman who worked on my bracelet and clutch. It made the experience much less about getting a box of beautiful accessories and more about recognizing that by choosing fair trade, I was helping another woman build her future.

IMG_7847One of my favorite items is the clutch. Especially in this stage of carrying a gigantic bag holding diapers, snacks, and an assortment of toys, whenever I go out without Bea, I like to carry the smallest possible purse. My clutch by Joyn is perfect. It fits my wallet, phone, and other small items without the need to transfer anything individually. I’ve taken it out on girl’s get-togethers and informal dates.

Melody, who founded Joyn in India says,

“We are so thankful for this partnership. Our hearts align and our missions align. Fair Trade Friday purchases JOYN products – each one made some of the most marginalized and oppressed people in the world – individuals with leprosy, disability, those who have grown up begging on the streets, former prostitutes, former addicts and your purchase employs at least 70 of our artisans with every order.”

Fair Trade Friday’s monthly boxes allow companies like Joyn to plan and produce more product than they could on their own. By having regular subscribers and even a waiting list, Fair Trade Friday is able to more accurately predict what needs to be produced each month. It also allows FTF to expand, as needed.

Image courtesy of Fair Trade Friday.
Image courtesy of Fair Trade Friday.

Founder of Mercy House Ministries and Fair Trade Friday, Kristen Welch says,

“I’ve sat across from founders from small non-profits who work in Afghanistan and India and Kenya and I’ve heard the worry and frustration in their voices wondering how they will continue to empower women when they cannot move the fair trade product that is piled up without a buyer. I’ve witnessed their discouragement and heard the heavy sighs of their burden to help women. We simply must do our part to work together to help each other help more women.”

There is currently a waiting list for the FTF monthly subscription box, but I’d highly recommend getting on it! And, don’t worry about waiting too long. New members are added each month. In fact, to celebrate their one year anniversary in August, 75 new spots will be available for FTF subscription boxes.

Don’t forget to enter the GIVEAWAY for a pair of Earring of the Month Club earrings! Click here to comment and I’ll pick a winner on Friday, July 3.

I received a complimentary pair of earrings as part of the Fair Trade Friday Blogging Team. I purchased the Fair Trade Friday box without any compensation. All opinions are my own.

Change the World. Look Good Doing It.

I think I first became aware of fair trade products in college. My circle of friends consisted of political scientists and social-justice minded people who thought deeply about their purchases. As we talked about changing the world over cafes and wine, sustainability, fair wages, and intentional purchasing peppered our conversations.

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Image courtesy of Fair Trade Friday.

Once I had my first job and steady income, I set to budgeting out my expenses. I had a monthly clothing budget set aside and, once I had a more professional wardrobe built, found that I was able to spend it on more expensive fairly made items. The thought of buying less but buying better was something I worked hard to live out. I shopped locally as much as possible and sought out fair trade items.

When Frank proposed, he purposefully sought out an ethically sourced engagement ring, knowing how important the story behind the purchase is to me. Most of the artwork in our home is from travels, artists we know, or fair trade sources. We are by no means perfect – I just bought some pajamas at Target, knowing I probably should have gotten another pair of Punjammies. Most of Bea’s clothes are disposable, as she plays hard and it’s tough for me to justify purchasing expensive items whose knees will be worn through by the end of the season.

Jewelry and accessories seem different, though. These are items I wear time and again and whose stories often serve as conversation starters. I recently googled “what to wear to a networking event” and a suggestion was a piece of jewelry with a story behind it. People will remember the story more easily than your resume. Most of my jewelry comes from my travels or has a story behind it. I think I only have a handful of items that I bought at chain stores.

Stunning earrings from Earring of the Month Club
Stunning earrings from Earring of the Month Club

When given the opportunity to join Fair Trade Friday’s blogging team, I jumped at the chance. I had heard incredible reviews about this high-quality company, whose mission is to empower women across the globe. A couple weeks ago, I received a pair of earrings from their Earring of the Month club. They are beautifully made, lightweight, and versatile. Mine came from Ethiopia, and I loved knowing a bit of the story behind my jewelry.

Fair Trade Friday is a ministry of Mercy House Kenya, an organization formed to support mothers and their babies. Mercy House not only provides maternal education to young mothers, but also aides in giving them skills to support their new families.

In just a year, FTF has grown to include over 1,000 women in 16 countries, giving them opportunities to grow their businesses by selling their products through The Mercy Shop. There are several ways to support the vision of Fair Trade Friday. A perfect starter option is the Earring of the Month Club. Each month, a pair of chic, high quality earrings are delivered. A detail I love is that gift tags are included. Because styles, colors, and products aren’t guaranteed, the option to gift anything that doesn’t go with your personal style helps spread the love of this organization.

GIVEAWAY! I received an extra pair of earrings from Fair Trade Friday. Leave a comment about your experience with buying fair trade – Do you do it already? Have you thought of it but have never taken the leap? I’ll pick a winner on Friday, July 3.

I received a complimentary pair of earrings as part of the Blogging Team. All opinions are my own.

Gifts that Keep on Giving

A friend and I were talking the other day about subscription gifts. With wedding season upon us and more and more people getting married later, gift giving looks a bit different. Most couples don’t need new bedding or china – they’ve already bought what they need. We were talking about subscription services and how fun it is to know that a gift will continue to surprise someone months after an event.

Summer seems filled with weddings, birthdays, baby showers, summer travels and host gifts, so I thought I’d share some subscription services I’ve been happy with as well as ones I’d like to try.

Foot Cardigan
For tax season, I usually try to think of fun little gifts for Frank that I can either slip in his briefcase or have sent to the office easily. This year, I signed him up for a Foot Cardigan subscription. Once a month, he received a funky pair of socks. I loved that they are dress socks – something he needs anyway – but in fun designs. When he has to wear a suit everyday, a fun pair of socks is an easy way to lighten the mood. The socks fit well, for the most part. One pair didn’t fit, and they quickly replaced them without question.

Getting mileage out of our Museum of Nature & Science membership
Getting mileage out of our Museum of Nature & Science membership

Local Memberships
After my parents moved up to Denver, we got my mom a membership to the Denver Botanic Gardens. This is one of our favorite memberships – we’ve had it since we were dating and listed as “Frank Rim + Guest.” We’ve since upgraded to the Family Pass and absolutely love that we can get six friends in with us for each visit. Area attraction memberships are great ways to stop saying We should go there sometime… and just go!

Sunset Wine Club
For my mom’s retirement, we decided to get her a subscription to Sunset’s Wine Club. Each month, she gets a bottle of white and a bottle of red as well as recipes to go with them. We were talking about her experience the other day and she said it was a great introduction to a variety of wines. Many are easily found at the liquor store, so if you find one that’s tasty, it can most likely be purchased again. There are many subscription wine services (Frank and I have been mulling over becoming part of the Justin “family”) but this is a good one if you want a variety or if you don’t have a specific winery in mind.

Image courtesy of Fair Trade Friday
Image courtesy of Fair Trade Friday

Fair Trade Friday
I just received my first Earring of the Month club earrings from Ethiopia. They are beautifully made and the colors go with several of my outfits. Because you aren’t guaranteed a specific style, a gift tag is always included so you can share the love. This is the perfect gift for a friend who loves global accessories. (I’ve been picked as a member of the FTF Blogging Team. A more in-depth review will be coming soon!) 

Fair Trade Friday is a ministry of Mercy House Kenya. FTF exists as an avenue for women to empower women by tackling poverty through job opportunities and empowerment rather than enablement. The artisans make beautiful projects and 100% of the proceeds support these artisans. Fair Trade Friday has a one-time box or a monthly club subscription but there is also an Earring of the Month Club. Both usually have a waiting list to join, but right now are open to new subscribers!

Three more I want to try…
These last three are services I keep hearing rave reviews about but haven’t yet had a chance to try for myself. We just sent a 6-month subscription of UrthBox snacks to a friend, so I’ll be interested to hear how he likes it.

My friend who likes to send subscription gifts to newlyweds said that Try the World is a tasty, gourmet surprise every couple months. After looking at their website, I’m tempted to sign us up for a subscription!

Blue Apron keeps coming up as a great way to make healthy meals when you’re tight on time. I keep thinking it’d be a good baby shower gift. I’ve also heard it’s a fun way to empower older kids who are interested in cooking by themselves.

Have you ever given or received a subscription gift? How did you like it? Any favorites to add to this list?