Living in the Moment

When I was single, I rarely made travel plans. One of my favorite things was showing up at a train station in Paris and either taking the next departing train to a nearby town or asking the ticket agent where they would go for a day trip. I explored some beautiful places that way! There was something so liberating about showing up without a guide book and just wandering for a day. Sometimes this plan didn’t work out so well. I’ve spent nights in rural train stations and porches of abandoned houses, unable to make it back to my destination for lack of planning. But, overall, I loved the freedom and adventure that went without having a plan.

Unplanned weekend in San Sebastien, Spain
Unplanned weekend in San Sebastien, Spain

Looking back, I’m a bit surprised at this travel tendency. I’m actually an organized person who loves having a map of my goals and dreams. Perhaps by not planning a travel itinerary, it was a safe way to dabble in the exotic world of living life in the moment.

In January, a friend asked what my hopes for this year were. How was I going to see things differently? Honestly, I had no plan. Having a toddler, expecting another one, settling into a new house. These all seemed like such boring, midlife accomplishments that didn’t really evoke ideas of excitement or seeing the world differently. I felt that I was falling into a bit of the cliched two-kids-and-a-dog-in-the-suburbs life. Her question made me want to jump on a train without a guidebook, to just end up somewhere new.

I’m realizing that there’s a balance between using a map and living in the moment. Yes, my life feels very planned right now. But, I’m learning to see the small moments in these planned days. I’m living different kinds of adventures and my days with Bea are often just as spontaneous and unplanned as visiting an unknown destination.

What about you? Are you a planner or do you live life with spontaneity?

Linked with Kate Motaung’s Five Minute Friday, a time to write without editing.


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Annie Rim

Welcome! I live in Colorado with my family and have taught in the classroom, at an art museum, and now in the playroom. I reflect about life, faith, and books here on my blog.

8 thoughts on “Living in the Moment”

  1. Great post, Annie! I’m definitely a planner. I like my plan. Um, a lot. 🙂 But, I’m learning to yield my plans to God and to let Him lead, even when I don’t know where I’m going beyond the next step forward. You were brave. I don’t think I’ve ever traveled without at least something of a plan for the trip. 🙂

    I didn’t know you were pregnant. Congratulations!

    1. Thanks! Another little girl. 🙂 (I wasn’t sure how one is supposed to announce these things in the blogging world…!)

      Sometimes I wonder about God’s plan. When I allow myself to give into spontaneity, it is so much fun! I wonder if God is a lot more spontaneous than we’d expect…

  2. Visiting from FMF!

    I love this: “I’m realizing that there’s a balance between using a map and living in the moment.”

    I appreciate scheduling so I know things are happening, but I also crave to be spontaneous. Sometimes I think we can learn so much about ourselves when we are in uncharted, unknown territory. And in the places that are familiar, we can rest.

    1. Thanks for stopping by! Yes… That balance is so important. I think God created a desire for spontaneity and the unknown, as well as that rest and peace that comes with a good plan.

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